Love Language Test: Which of the Five Is Yours?
30 statements based on the five love languages concept. Shows what truly fills you up in close relationships — with a partner, friends, or family — what hurts, and how to let your loved ones know what you need.
30 questions4 minutesfree
What the test measures
The five love languages
For you, love is something you hear.
For you, love is undivided attention.
For you, a gift is a tangible sign of "I'm thinking of you." It's not about the price: what touches you is that the item was chosen just for you and shows they remembered the little things about you..
For you, love shows in actions.
For you, closeness is physical.
The questions are inspired by the five love languages concept; they are not a reprint of the questionnaire from the book. If two languages score almost equally, we honestly show a mixed result.
Read also
- Love Language: Words of Affirmation
- Love Language: Quality Time
- Love Language: Gifts
- Love Language: Acts of Service
- Love Language: Physical Touch
- Attachment Style
How to take it
Go with your first instinct and think about how you usually behave. There are no right answers. You can take the test on the website or in the Telegram bot, and the Full Report opens in the same place once you've completed two or more tests.
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FAQ
How long does the test take?
30 questions, about 4 minutes.
Is it free?
Yes, the test and short result are free. The Full Report across multiple tests is paid.
Is this Gary Chapman's test?
No. The test is inspired by the popular concept of the five love languages (G. Chapman), but all questions and descriptions are our own. It's a self-discovery tool, not a scientifically validated assessment.
What love languages are there?
Five: words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, acts of service, physical touch. Most people have a primary language and a second most important one, and sometimes two are almost equal.
Can I take it if I'm not in a relationship?
Yes. The questions are about the people close to you in general — a partner, friends, family. Love language matters in friendships too.
How can I find out my partner's love language?
Ask them to take the test in the Telegram bot too, then exchange friendship codes. The bot will show what each of you needs to get from the other.
What is the test based on?
Original project questions inspired by the five love languages concept (G. Chapman); the book's questions and text are not used.
The tests are for informational and entertainment purposes only and are not a medical or psychological diagnosis. If you're struggling, please reach out to a professional. To find a local crisis line in your country, visit findahelpline.com (free, worldwide).